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Showing posts with label buying a house. Show all posts
Showing posts with label buying a house. Show all posts

Monday, September 17, 2012

How often do you follow those little nudges during your day? Would you believe me if I said those little nudges led me to our soon to be home?

We had all but given up on finding a house for ourselves. If you've been around the blog for a beat, you may have read about the many times we were told "NO" on the homes we were trying to get into. The market in our area is nuts and the best homes go the fastest. Our only strategy was to get out of the rat race, focus on homeschooling the kiddos, and pick up the search again come the winter {hoping that the competition that time of year would be less}.

Early in August, the hubster had to spend a week in New Orleans working for a client. There was no way I was going to spend a week alone with the 3 kiddos cooped up in our condo, so we went to stay with my in-laws. The Monday before Mike was to return, his mom told me to take the day and go do something alone and leave the kiddos with her and my father-in-law.

I thought about what I should do. Where should I go?

Then a tug in my heart made me want to go "home"...back to the city I grew up in and also spent a lot of time with the hubster in when we were dating. Luckily, "home" was only a 15 minute drive south from where I was staying, so I headed off. As I was driving, though, I asked God to guide me that day...as I always do...I asked him to help me not miss opportunities to share His goodness with people as I go about my day.

My first stop was the Habitat for Humanity ReStore where I found a chair I fell in love with. It had old-time charm to it but needed to be recovered {still does}. I called my mom and asked her if she thought it was do-able and she let me know she was home so I could just stop by with it after I bought it. Oh, and by the way, "There are wicker chairs on the curb across the street but I don't want to go get them until the people there are gone". She told me.

I bought the chair and headed for my parent's house and spotted the wicker chairs...and the people...across the street and something told me to just go ask for them.

I pulled up to the corner, asking the woman there if she would mind. That one question led to her deciding to share her present-tense life with me. Her sister owned that house and she just passed away 2 weeks prior to our conversation. She let me know she would be selling the house and had to get rid of everything inside of it. She also let me know how upset and stressed out she was, now caring for her 16 year old niece who has special needs. But before I left that chat, I asked her if it were OK that I pray for her. Her face became so relieved. She sighed a great big sigh. "Yes! PLEASE pray for me. I've really got my work cut out for me here."

I had her name and phone number written on a napkin. She told me to call her in a couple weeks if I were interested in buying the house. She was going to have someone give her an estimate of value and contact an agent to sell it.

Well, some time went by and the hubster and I agreed we could at least find out what she was going to ask for it. And I kept meaning to call her, I just kept getting sidetracked for whatever reason. Finally, a day and time came when the kiddos were calm and content and I felt a strong urge to call her right then. I called and she told me I had great timing. She had an asking price and an agent ready to list the house for sale. She also said she would show us the house that night.

We looked at the house and were blown away. For me, I remembered spending time there and in that yard as a little girl. But looking at the home as a mom of three little ones, I saw SO much potential for the space and knew our family could be quite comfortable there. After our walk through, we had a chat with the woman about our intentions. "If you're interested, the agent won't even list the house." We were told. And that didn't really hit me right away because I wanted to make sure she knew I had been praying for her every day like I told her I would.

I squeezed her hand and told her she was in my prayers from the day I met her. At first she tried to joke and laugh it off. I looked her in the eye and said "I mean it. I want you to know you're being prayed for." Her eyes welled up with tears and she said a quick "Goodbye", giving us the card of her agent so we could call him the following day if we decided to make an offer.

Well, we made an offer and the house never hit the market. No one knew it was available which means no one could outbid us or beat us to it. Our offer was accepted and we close in just under 2 weeks.

My friends, I truly, truly believe that this opportunity could only have been orchestrated by God Himself. Who else could set up so many "by chance" happenings and bring us such a beautiful outcome?

Do you listen to those "nudges", those "gut instincts"? Simple obedience could make all the difference.

Oh, I could go on and on about this house but we've plenty of time for that as I'll be sharing about our projects as we go along. I'll let you know the key items that I love about it, though. *It's a Victorian home. *It has a very large backyard {with plenty of room for a garden!}. *There's an old barn in the backyard. I LOVE IT!

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A New Home And A Lesson In Obedience

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Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Last weekend we put in an offer on a house and was I excited. This house was a bungalow in a great neighborhood. It had a partially finished basement and just needed a little paint here or there...or so we thought.

Right after we put in our offer, our agent let us know someone else had made an offer as well and told us we were to offer our "highest and best" bid by Monday. We were pretty comfortable with our offer but agreed we would go up a bit if our agent found out info about the other bid pending.

And just when we were about to raise our bid...

our agent contacted us to tell us he found out some info on the house.

The house is missing plumbing.

UGH!

Now, I didn't mention that this home came with a small list of repairs that needed to be made to bring it up to code and we had already agreed to take responsibility for those before moving in. So when we heard that there was more than we even knew about, we immediately put on the brakes.

The hubster was disappointed but we both agreed that we needed to walk away from this house and keep on looking until we find the perfect one. The house doesn't have to be "perfect", but we'd rather deal with small repairs and cosmetic things over plumbing...that could have been original to a 1940's home.

So, we will keep on hunting.

Wish us luck!

P.S. The hubster totally made the mistake of telling me about a farm house he found. {He calls it a shack.} We've added it to the list of homes we'd like to walk through next. :)

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Keep On Hunting!

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Friday, March 16, 2012

In our very early stages of house hunting, I saw a house pop up that grabbed my interest and refused to let go. We called our agent and he squeezed it in for us to see at the end of our time with him. It was everything I thought I wanted.

No, really.

I thought I wanted this house.

While we were out with our agent, we went to see a home that was perfect, save for a few cosmetic issues {shag carpet, anyone?}. The deal breaker for this one was that it was a short sale. We really don't have time to get involved in a short sale right now as we're preparing for a new venture.

{I still haven't shared that with you, have I?} tee hee

OK.

Blah, blah, blah, 2 other homes with obvious foundation issues, blah blah

and we've reached THE house.

As the hubster and I looked around this home, my heart flew out of my chest and just kept going until the rose colored glasses took over and I found myself wanting this house.So.Bad.

It was a Victorian home with a stunning, updated kitchen. It had a full basement, TONS of storage, and untapped space that made my DIY and decorating senses tingle.

*sigh* And I was sold. And it HAD to be mine. And I told the hubster so. And it had water in the basement. And it was obvious that a homeless person was sleeping in the yard and on the closed in porch.

What?

Really?

Fa-la-la...it was all going to be OK because I WANTED this house.

Well, hubs wanted to be sure the foundation was OK and that the water was due to a missing window and nothing more so my dad and I were going to return to the home the next day before putting in an offer.

I packed up the kiddos to head to my parent's home the next day and got a phone call when I was halfway there. The bank just approved another offer on the house...MY HOUSE...{pouty face}. I learned a hard lesson that day on how fast the market moves and I swore I wouldn't let that happen to me again.

TIMING IS EVERYTHING, PEOPLE.

After I composed myself and actually began to believe the thoughts of "This just wasn't meant for me", I began to recognize where I went wrong. I ignored the things that made me hesitate on the house because my desire to own the home had taken over. When I was realizing the things I let go, I was shocked at myself and really gave myself a hard time about it.

The truth is, I saw a dead mouse in the garbage can pull out in the kitchen and didn't say anything because "oh, that's probably nothing". I also saw dead bugs upstairs that looked like...but I wasn't sure...bedbugs. 

"How did those dead beetles get here?"

And would you believe I was totally willing to laugh off a wet sleeping bag and an empty bottle of gin in the yard?

I KNOW!

When my brain became sober, I was all..."WHAT WAS I THINKING?!?!" and I was so grateful that someone else bought that house.

We'll be looking at homes again soon.

I vow to NEVER get all hung up on the dream of a house again. I want something that's perfect and safe for my whole family. I tend to believe that when we find the home that's perfect for all of us, I'll be happy with it too and I'll WANT it...just like that...only not so irrational-like. :)

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Timing Is Everything...And EVERYTHING

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Monday, February 22, 2010


Welcome to Monday Mingle as hosted by Eighty MPH Mom! If you'd like to play along, just click the link to get over to Jen's site. Today, I'm answering her questions and also throwing in some "Coffee Talk" about house hunting.



Here are the questions for this week:

1. Name your 5 favorite movies
2. What is the most requested/favorite meal in your house?
3. Is your husband/partner/significant other into sports? If so, does it irritate you when he/she watches, or do you join in?


Enjoy!





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Monday Mingle ~ Feb. 22nd

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Friday, February 19, 2010


Aloha! I'm joining Kailani from an Island Life for another "take it easy" question and answer post. If you'd like to get involved, click the link and you'll be take over to her post for today. It's easy-bo-breezy.


Here's my question for the day:

Would you consider buying a home if it needed a little "elbow grease" for the right price? 

We'll be finding out the answer to this question tomorrow morning. For us, it depends on how much "grease" we're talkin'. :) 

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Aloha Friday ~ 2-19

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